Public Speaking Myth Nine: I Have Nothing to Say If you focus your writing or consulting, you might not think you have anything to say to “everyone.” You might even feel some imposter syndrome. That’s a myth, because the most effective public speakers choose one aspect of their expertise to highlight. Just one. Use your […]
Public Speaking Myth Eight: Speakers Should Copy Someone Else Many less-practiced speakers think they need to copy someone else’s speaking style. But audiences can see right through that lack of authenticity. Instead, show your enthusiasm by being more of you. I am not saying bring your “whole self” to the stage. I swear a lot—I
Early in my public speaking career, a fellow speaker asked me to sit in on his session and offer feedback afterwards. I did. And I had a very tough time staying awake. His slides were too dense, his delivery was almost a monotone, but there was a reason for that: He did not tell a
Several of my fiction writer friends say they write fiction for one of two reasons: They want to read this kind of book. And/or They want to live in a world like the one they wrote about. These dear writers think that means they have nothing to say to other people. Hello? At the very
Public Speaking Myth Five: Shy People Cannot Be Effective Speakers Anyone can be shy. Shy people tend to be more reserved and more reluctant to share their ideas in public. Yet, those reasons are why shy people can be effective public speakers. That’s often because shy people purposefully curate their ideas. They clarify their thoughts.
There is another pernicious myth about public speaking: that only extroverts can be effective public speakers. Early in my speaking career, a fellow speaker, an introvert, said, “You’re so lucky to be an extrovert. It must make public speaking so much easier. I have to think every time someone asks me a question.” I laughed.
There is another pernicious myth about public speaking: that exposure is enough compensation. That myth ignores the value the speaker offers. Imagine this scenario: a large, multinational company or a famous conference asks you to speak. You feel flattered and warm all over. You have exactly the right presentation for their audience. Then you ask:
Since I’m running a Kickstarter for the Effective Public Speaking book, here’s another public speaking myth: the one where you introduce yourself so you look impressive to an audience. Uh, sorry, no. Here’s why: Most conferences or meetups have a facilitator who will read the bio you sent them in advance. The audience chose you
Since I’m running a Kickstarter for the Effective Public Speaking book, I expect to record several videos about the myths and traps of public speaking. However, I never memorize my talks. These videos are not exactly presentations because I’m trying to keep them short, so people will watch them or read these blog posts. So